Discover How To Be 100% Ready For A Marriage That Thrives Beyond The Honeymoon Phase, Without Sacrificing Your Happiness or Peace Of Mind
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Your "Mr. or Mrs. Right" Can Quickly Become "Mr. or Mrs. Wrong" Just Because You Failed To Do One Thing..."Hmm, Coach TA Has Come Again"
Yes! I have come again because regardless of whether you like it, you must marry RIGHT. In fact, you will never be among those who will regret marrying their partners later. Can I Get An Amen?
Early Preparation + Intentional Effort + A Lot of Hard Discussions
Now, it's easy to say "Amen" to my prayers above, but what's not easy is keeping a home. I've been married for over 25 years and I can tell you even in my sleep that, the formula for a blissful marriage is not love, but rather:
So, yes! It is possible for your "Mr. or Mrs. Right" to Quickly Become "Mr. or Mrs. Wrong" Just Because You Failed To Prepare For Marriage Early Enough. Many claim marriage is a concept you can learn on the job , but that same learning has led so many to their early graves and I know that's not what you wish for yourself. So why leave preparation to chance?
Sadly, the media has lied to us. It has painted a picture-perfect image of love and relationships, making us believe in an ideal that often doesn't exist. We see Instagram and YouTube couples sharing their seemingly flawless lives, and we admire them, aspiring to have what they portray. Then out of nowhere, they announce their divorce and we begin to wonder where it all went wrong
This is why I created the "Pathway To Forever" Program
My goal in this lifetime is simple. To help you avoid the marriage pitfalls present in this day and age, and to give you a chance at enjoying a lasting marriage that you'll be 100% proud of.
What Is The Pathway To Forever Program All About?
The Pathway To Forever is a comprehensive marriage preparation toolkit designed to equip you and your partner with the tools to navigate the complexities of a lifelong commitment. This toolkit addresses the critical topics every couple must discuss and agree upon before walking down the aisle, ensuring your future is filled with harmony, understanding, and mutual growth. Topics Like:
Conflict Resolution: Disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, but how they are handled makes all the difference. Questions like, How will we approach and resolve conflicts?, Are there behaviors inherited from our families that need reevaluation?, What role do respect and empathy play during disagreements? are critical because many people unknowingly carry unhealthy patterns from dysfunctional homes, believing toxic behaviors are “normal.” Identifying and addressing these beliefs early can prevent harm in your relationship.
Values and Respect: Understanding your partner’s values and defining mutual respect are vital for a lasting marriage. Critical questions like, What does respect mean to each of us?, Do you expect traditional gestures, like a wife kneeling to serve food, or do you see respect as mutual?, Is loyalty a two-way street for you, or do you believe it’s gender-specific? will help you align your core values, ensuring mutual understanding and respect as the cornerstone of your union.
Boundaries With In-Laws: Extended family can be a blessing or a challenge, depending on the boundaries that couples agree to set together. For instance, some marriages have faced issues or even ended because a mother-in-law moved in with the couple, causing tension. In other cases, conflict arises when one partner involves their parents in marital issues. For example, a wife reporting disagreements to her parents, who then develop a negative perception of her husband, even after the couple has resolved their differences. Clear and healthy boundaries are essential to maintain harmony in such situations.
While the above topics are foundational, several other critical discussions on financial management, intimacy expectations, career alignment, parenting plans, and the role of faith to ensure clarity on shared goals, effective communication, and mutual understanding must take place to strengthen your relationship before marriage.
Discussing these topics openly and honestly can help you build a strong foundation for your marriage, ensuring that both partners feel seen, heard, and respected in their journey together. The Pathway To Forever program provides practical guidance and conversation prompts for these and other crucial areas, empowering you to approach your union with clarity and confidence, and ultimately avoiding divorce
So let's find out if the Pathway To Forever program is for you!
If You Belong to One of These Three Categories, This Program Is for You...
Engaged Couples Preparing for Marriage
You’re in the pre-wedding whirlwind, excited about the future but maybe feeling uncertain about what lies beyond the honeymoon. You want to ensure your marriage is grounded in more than just feelings and built on a solid foundation that lasts.
Seriously Dating Couples Ready to Commit
You’ve been dating for a while and are considering marriage, but you’re not 100% sure you’re prepared for the realities. You want to be intentional about your relationship and set yourselves up for success from the start.
Singles Preparing for Marriage
You’re not in a relationship just yet, but you know marriage is part of your future. You want to avoid common pitfalls, understand yourself better, and be 100% ready when the time comes.
If any of these sound like you, then the Pathway to Forever Program will give you the clarity and confidence you need to make your dream marriage a reality!
Pathway To Forever; More Like Pre-Marital Counselling, But It Goes Deeper Than That!
Pathway To Forever; More Like Pre-Marital Counselling, But It Goes Deeper Than That!
Online Course Only: Perfect if you’re ready to dive in at your own pace, learn the fundamentals, and start applying the principles for a sustainable marriage.
Online Course + Coaching Program: Ideal for couples and singles who want personal guidance, feedback, and hands-on support. With this option, you get the full course plus 8 live coaching sessions to tackle challenges, answer questions, and provide personalized advice.
If you’re thinking Pathway to Forever is just another pre-marital checklist or a set of feel-good love tips, let’s clear that up right away.
This is Not…
- A “One-Size-Fits-All” Course: Every relationship is unique, which is why Pathway to Forever isn’t filled with generic advice. We go beyond the surface to offer tools and techniques that adapt to your individual personalities, strengths, and growth areas.
- A Quick Fix or Temporary Solution: Marriage isn’t just about making it through the honeymoon phase; it’s about the years, decades, and life seasons ahead. Pathway to Forever is designed to give you lifelong skills and tools that you’ll return to again and again.
- A “Do-It-Once and Forget-It” Program: This isn’t the kind of session you finish and leave behind. Think of it as your ongoing resource for building a resilient, ever-growing partnership. The insights and exercises are designed to evolve with you, becoming part of the fabric of your relationship.
In essence, Pathway to Forever isn’t about the wedding day; it’s about every day after. It’s a toolkit, a roadmap, and a foundation to ensure that your marriage has what it takes to thrive for a lifetime.
How Does The Pathway To Forever Program Differ From The Pre-Marital Counselling You're Receiving in a Religious Setting?
The Pathway To Forever Program goes beyond traditional pre-marital counselling found in most religious settings by offering a deep, practical approach that fully prepares you for a thriving marriage, not just the wedding day.
My journey into marriage was shaped by similar faith-based teachings that laid an essential foundation, yet I realized there was so much more to truly understanding marriage.
With over 20 years of experience as a certified marriage and emotional intelligence coach and coaching couples at the Ikoyi Registry, I designed the Pathway To Forever Program to cover everything I wish I’d known before getting married.
This program offers in-depth, transformative insights, actionable steps, and mindset shifts tailored around these key pillars:
What Are Our Couples Saying?
